Studies show that boys and girls are both likely to use the computer for equal amounts of time. What they won’t do, however, is use the computer for the same purposes. Boys tend to play games and spend more time on entertainment-style uses while girls are more likely to do homework, research, and send emails. No matter what the studies show, though, it is pretty safe to say that both boys and girls are just as likely to end up in some awkward situations. The best way to avoid potential issues is to set rules for when and how your children can use the computer.
Computer Placement
If you are concerned about your child’s computer use, do not allow him or her to have a personal computer in his bedroom. Make sure the computer is place in your living room or dining room – high traffic areas where you can glance at the screen while the PC is in use. If your child does have his own computer, make sure it is located in a place where you can see the screen when walking past the open bedroom door – and make sure that door is open during use.
That brings us to the issue of teens and laptops. Many schools now issue laptops to students for use and they bring them home for homework and networking. You have just as much duty (and right) to track your child’s laptop use as you do his use on your regular desktop. Make a space for the laptop to be stored and make sure it is placed there whenever it is not in use – especially at night.
Computer Time Limits
Unless your child is doing legitimate research for homework or a project, the amount of time he is on the computer, for gaming or internet use, should be strictly limited. You limit television time, so hwy not internet time as well? Make sure your children have a fair balance of time on the computer, watching television, playing outdoors, and enjoying time with family. Place a timer next to the computer so that your child understands his limits.
Change Your Internet Homepage
You’ll need a separate list of rules for internet use vs. regular computer use. One great way of reminding your children about those rules is to put up a simple web page with a list. You can then make that page your “home page” so that it is the first thing everyone sees when they bring up the browser. List reminders about not talking to strangers, social networking stipulations, not giving out personal information, and anything else you deem relevant.
Speaking of Privacy
Make sure your children and teens are limited in what they are allowed to do on social networking sites. If you allow your child to participate on sites like these, demand passwords and do what you feel is necessary in terms of privacy settings. Tell your children that they can only have accounts on social networking sites if they follow your rules. You have the right to limit the sites they use, including free email sites, blogs, and web hosting sites.
As a parent, it is your right and your responsibility to set rules for your children. They may resist at first, but what you are doing is for their own safety. Be firm and fair and your children will ultimately respect your decisions. Whenever you are in need of repair, be sure to contact your local Delaware PC technician.
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